I have a pretty strong opinion about soloing: I think it is for people in a league of their own. It is a test of mental and physical ability. I have a great deal of respect for these people and I will have a special place in my heart for their achievements and I will always feel jealous of them in some aspects.
Having said this: I have done my fair share of soloing and I will never solo hard climbs even if I have never fallen off. Climbing with protection is dangerous enough.
I had an 8m ground fall yesterday while trying to onsight Witless (25) in Boven with gear that seemed to be good. I walked away thanks to the gear ripping and reducing the force of the fall and I'm very grateful to be in one piece and able to climb again (soon).
Alex Honnold wrote this in an 8a.nu interview:
"JENS: what do you think about other people out there taking big risk soloing?
ALEX: I've definitely climbed with some people who seem to be taking too much risk, but it's hard for me call someone out on that since it's like the pot calling the kettle black [if you know that saying, basically it means that I'd be a hypocrite].
I think everyone can judge for themselves just how far they want to push it. I know that when I watch someone who looks shaky but who goes for it anyway it makes me really uncomfortable. But it's their choice, and maybe they feel really solid, even though they look terrible. Everyone can make their own choices in life."
Take into consideration icon free soloists like Derek Hershey died while soloing a 5.9 route. This is something around grade 17. John Bachar died soloing a grade 22. Both these climbers could solo much harder and yet died young and alone falling from a cliff.
I feel that soloing is an achievement that is best not publicized, 8a.nu has a policy against publicizing solo ascents (as was actually stated in the Honnold article). I know that some magazines have the same policy as they do not wish to create a world of hype around soloists even though they are pushing the limits of the sport. It is a very tricky balance.
I don't want to hear that one of my friend's died while climbing. I've lost friends to climbing, it really sucks. Freak accidents do happen and are unavoidable. I don't want to hear that a friend fell to his death because he climbed without a rope. I'll never tell someone not to solo, that is not my prerogative but I can say that I will not solo...